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LIVE. LOVE. LIFE.

Yoni Code Retreat

SENSUOUS IN SUMMER

When the primal urge to awaken the wild within you can no longer be suppressed, you must surrender to the call, and align with the truest expression of yourself!

Next Class: July 11-15, 2024

SOLD OUT

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yonr trip to

El Salvador

Come gather ceremoniously in the stunning indigenous landscape of El Salvador to reinvigorate ancient spiritual alliances, activate new sacred agreements for the life you desire, exchange critical knowledge of the sacred sciences of our ancestral mothers’ mysteries, and elevate toward a higher-vibrational and more conscious living. 

 

Here, you’ll voyage through voluptuous mountain scapes and edge the fiery volcanoes’ tops

as metaphor for self exploration, edging, and flowing inward towards your peaks and valleys

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WHY YOU NEED THIS

This retreat is for you if you desire to...

  • Learn the secret practices of feminine form energetics, self care, and sensuousness

  • Create rituals and rites that cultivate a more soft life every day

  • Create an orgasmic life

  • Stop energy chasing and instead learn how to call all your desires to you

  • Sustain a man’s worship of and commitment to you

  • Live in purpose and pleasure, accessing orgasms daily

  • Release shame around your cycle

  • Learn the Fertility Awareness Method that everyone is raving about 

  • Understand your hormonal changes and signs of imbalance for healing and optimal health

  • Gain the answers to questions you’ve had about ovulation and Conscious Conception

  • Trust yourself more by turning inward 

  • Attune to your power by dropping into your body wisdom

  • Unlock the deep wisdom and unique codes of your womb

  • Honor femininity as an embodied essence, rather than surface aesthetic

  • Cultivate your unique feminine magnetism through presence 

  • Detach from the draining masculine rhythm of the corporate workplace 

  • Shift towards entrepreneurship and feminine artistry

  • Enhance relationships through mindful connection and intentional intimacy

  • Increase comfort and ease, owning your sexual pleasure 

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A Retreat to Remember

This retreat is a nourishing gateway for women ready to consistently experience healing, pleasure and full expression of your creative abilities. This occurs through permitting yourself to drop into your body in order to build your wisdom and intuition through sensuality, soma, and ritual grounding. More than simply an extended “vacation” or a tropical “Girl’s Trip,” this Sensuous in Summer retreat is your invitation to the most intimate, womb-centered, sensuous, and orgasmic REprogramming that exists!

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Hi, I’m Elena Lakay

Meet Your Hostess

Elena Lakay, your hostess and presiding Priestess, is curating this luscious experience based on a culmination of over 20 years of experience working with women. Her extensive clientele, including VIP and celebrity personages, consists largely of women whom she has helped cultivate confidence, creativity, conscious conception, and connection to the Earth. She’s achieved this through implementing integrated healing modalities with which her clients are able to make an intentional biological and psychological shift into somatic sensuousness. Her passion is teaching women to master the necessary balance of artfully flowing between their masculine and feminine aspects, while learning to de-program from the overdependence on the disruptive masculine-dominant rhythm of modern society that has for too long dangerously dysregulated the female nervous system.  

 

For too long, the Black woman has been romanticized and applauded for her silent, long-suffering resilience and self-martyring compromise. Women have become programmed to force and push their way to what they’ve been taught to want, rather than having the freedom to heal in their soft fluidity and magnetize her true desires. Women have been brainwashed into equating masculine forms of competitive success and insatiable masculine ambition with abundance, when in fact the ability to ground, witness, experience and absorb is what attracts true abundance. This lusciousness manifests from the realization that, by turning inward, she finds she already has everything she desires, as her desires are already aligned according to the purity of her intentional ability to rest and receive!

The perception of femininity has been limited in modernity to a mere trendy beauty aesthetic.

Coaches have deceived women into believing femininity is a “seduction strategy” and a melange of sexual techniques. Women have been unable to magnetize truly aligned and elevated Divine Consorts because their decision-making is still based in a “chase-hunt” type of masculine-driven strategy and clouded by pain and fears of the past. 

 

Collectively, we’ve been misled by being taught “The Law Of Attraction” is about the power of the mind– Elena teaches women that the key to true feminine magnetism is in the alignment of embodiment. Elena’s divine alchemy is in allowing sensorial experience in the body to create memory, activating the wisdom with which the heart, womb, and soul emits the frequency of abundance that invites what you deserve through intentional consent, the power of choosing through activating your Authentic No and Ecstatic Yes! Elena’s gift is guiding women to rewrite the stories of their lives, shifting paradigms and healing lineages by encoding them with the magically feminine ability to use the body to make informed choices for crafting amazing lives they are empowered in, blissfully.

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The details

What to expect

In this ancestral landscape, the wild calls you to reclaim your birthright as you bathe your Naked body in spiritual song and artistry! Manifest bliss, fertility, and abundance within the world of your womb, and unleash your personal feminine form & embodied awareness. 

 

Through this week long Rite of Passage, you will receive:

Opening Ceremony that includes a softening and affirming naming rite to Presence yourself

Sunrise Cliff Hike foraging for Earth elements 

Sacred Womb Geometry transmissions and cervical portal exploration 

Guided Orgasmic yoni meditation

Goddess Adornment and Sister mirroring

Softening Hot Springs

Cosmic Moon baptismal

Conscious Conception Ceremony

Sensuous Soma Circle and devotional

Cacao Healing Ceremony & Sensorium with Sound Healing

Horseback riding through jungle hills and stunning sunset rides beachside

Sacred Womb Capsule

Blood Initiation Ceremony with spiraling womb dance

Secret Sacral Crafting workshop

…and so much more to be revealed! 

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Itinerary

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Day 1

After check-in, explore & experience the Mystery of this sacred space. Begin to activate your senses & sensuousness through somatic massage and indulging in the vibrations of the land's lushness, its familiars, totems, and its nature guides. 

During this Initiation Gateway, you will:

  • Learn yoni anatomy/physiology, hormonal ecology, cycle mapping to identify fertile window and accurately determine ovulation for conscious conception OR to enjoy passionate lovemaking if wishing to conceive at a later time

  • Experience womb activation through meditative heart opening exercises

  • Reclaim body sovereignty via sensuous somatic release 

  • Embrace the beauty of your wild, wise feminine anatomy learning sacred womb geometry

  • Be awed by the glory of your divine cervical portal through witnessing a live Goddess model

  • Rewrite your Blood Story and create new blood rites affirming beauty in your Moon

  • ReWild yourself and re-awaken ancestral mother memory in a luxurious and potent indigenous jungle

  • Detach from technological disturbances to hear, process, and honor your authentic “Yes!”

  • Experience devotion and reverence of yourself as Goddess 

  • Re-orient yourself in the Power of Consent in a safe, sensorial Soma circle of BIPOC Sisters

  • Create trauma-free community with BIPOC Sisters as your radiant mirror

  • Indulge in potent natural detoxes in a natural negative ion salt pool vortex where ancestral land meets sea 

  • Nourish your wild Inner Child during jungle exploration and an immersive hill climb with nature guides

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Registration includes:

  • Six nights of luxury in your choice of retreat suite, oceanside bungalow, or jungle tree house

  • Personal concierge and roundtrip individual airport shuttle transportation

  • Your choice of Organic, award-winning meals (including a snack upon your arrival) and nourishing, detoxing non-alcoholic drinks served to you by elegant wait staff

  • 3 personal meals a day of your choosing a la carte direct from Mizata’s gourmet menu

  • Unlimited access to pristine, filtered water, enhancing sacred activation

  • Unlimited horseback riding

  • Complimentary massage therapy

  • Excursions to water falls, jungle hike, natural ocean salt pool, local cacao and sound healing ceremonies

  • Special custom gift offering for each Sister 

  • Itinerary 30 days from retreat with list of suggested and required item list 

  • Sister Group Chat link via Signal

  • Access to Elena’s exclusive workshops, rituals, and rites in addition to the scheduled itinerary

Registration does not include:

  • Gratuity for meals and wait-staff services

  • Meals and beverages in addition to the complimentary 3 choice meals

  • Merchandise available for purchase during the retreat

  • Travel insurance (strongly recommended)

  • Health Insurance (strongly recommend)

  • Additional days for rest, experiences, or Sacred Body Therapy that are requested ahead of or following the retreat's scheduled itinerary (upon arrival or before departure), must be coordinated in advance. Please ask for more information and our concierge will provide accommodation options.

Requirements

  • Non refundable deposit 

  • If on payment plan, final payment due June 20th.

  • Complete intake and registration information 

  • Complete confidentiality agreement

  • Complete release of liability

  • Complete non compete form 

  • Complete media release form 

  • Emergency contact form

  • Activity Consent form

*forms available upon checkout

Protecting the Sisterhood & Mystery

The staff of the host site are aware of the sacred intention of our gathering, and are aligned in serving, providing compassionate private concierge services, spacious and comfortable housing accommodations, as well as delicious and aesthetically sumptuous food fit for the Goddesses you are. The itinerary incorporates yoga, rituals and ceremony to align the body, mind and spirit of each woman. Through workshops on sex, the throat chakra, flexibility and other aspects of women’s holistic living, participants dive deep into relationships with themselves. Each woman is being guided from foundational understandings of the Sacred Science of their bodies all the way to divining with blood elixirs of their sacred wombs. 

 

Elena Lakay affirms emphatically: “We want women to form deeper connections with their bodies so they can make more informed decisions that allow them to feel free. We want women to feel that they are the ones leading their journey toward living their best lives!”

If your entire being is shouting an ecstatic YES, click below to lock in your reservation today!

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Accommodations

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Retreat Suite: $2954

*Price per person (incl. Tax, excl. tips)

Ask how you can bundle the Yoni Code 2023 Mentorship with the Sensuous in Summer Initiation

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A New Chapter Begins:
From The Yoni Code to The Feminine Arc

For years, The Yoni Code offered women a portal into deeper understanding of their bodies, cycles, and power.
But evolution is the nature of life — and with it, a new, more expansive journey has emerged.

Today, The Feminine Arc is born:
A living, breathing curriculum designed to guide women through every stage of their body’s wisdom — from first blood to leadership in legacy years.

Remember Her is our first stepping stone on this arc.
It is the foundational remembering:
A return to the body's original intelligence,
A restoration of rhythmic sovereignty,
A reawakening of the blueprint that was always yours.

If you’ve journeyed with us before — welcome deeper.
If you are new to this work — welcome home.

We begin, as all great journeys do, with the first remembering.

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A Message for Every Woman

There is a wild intelligence living within you — a precise, breathtaking symphony of hormones, rhythms, fertile tides, and subtle communications that were designed for your thriving.

Yet for centuries, women have been distanced from their own bodies. Taught to fear their fertility. Conditioned to distrust their cycles. Pressured to override their natural wisdom in service to convenience, control, or conformity.

The result is a silent crisis — one that touches nearly every woman alive today.

Remember Her is a modern reclamation: a clinical, embodied, and soul-rooted journey back to the profound intelligence of your female form. Here, you will learn to understand your full anatomy, navigate your hormonal ecology, master the language of your cycle, and reclaim the sovereign rhythms that were always yours to command.

This is the beginning of The Feminine Arc — a lifetime journey of self-mastery, vibrant health, and embodied leadership.

The world needs women who remember.

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The Hidden Health Crisis Facing Women

Only 7% of Americans have healthy metabolic function; 93% do not.

60% of Americans live with at least one chronic disease.

800 million people worldwide are living with obesity, including a massive rise in childhood obesity  with girls being disproportionately impacted.

41% of women over 21 are obese; 45% have high blood pressure.

1 in 5 women will develop Alzheimer’s disease — increasingly linked to insulin resistance

("Type 3 Diabetes").

1 in 8 women will develop a thyroid disorder.

1 in 9 women will develop type 2 diabetes.

80% of autoimmune conditions affect women.

Suicide rates for women peak between ages 45–55, coinciding with profound hormonal transitions.

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Birth Interventions:

  • Only 5% of women give birth physiologically with full oxytocin flow.

  • 30% of births are cesarean sections.

  • 40% are induced, 76% involve epidurals, 94% involve continuous fetal monitoring, 25% involve episiotomies.

Fertility in Crisis:

  • 1 in 6 couples experience infertility.

  • Female infertility rates have nearly doubled in the last 40 years.

  • 15–20% of known pregnancies end in miscarriage.

  • IVF and assisted reproduction are rising, often without addressing root causes.

Behind these numbers lies a deeper wound:
The widespread loss of body literacy — of fertile awareness, hormonal ecology, and sovereign self-care — is costing women their vitality, autonomy, and future health.

It does not have to be this way.

Why Now? Why

Remember Her

Women cannot afford to remain disconnected.

Mastery of your body’s rhythms is not just about fertility or contraception —
it is the foundation for
emotional resilience, cognitive clarity, relationship alignment, career performance, and long-term health outcomes.

Through this journey, you will:

  • Reclaim your power to regulate your health, fertility, and well-being naturally.

  • Learn to detect early hormonal shifts that can impact memory, energy, weight, immune function, and mental health.

  • Build emotional resilience by syncing your energy and nervous system to your body's true rhythms.

  • Make informed, confident decisions about healthcare, intimacy, lifestyle, and purpose.

  • Live from a place of inner authority, self-trust, and embodied intelligence.

When a woman understands the ecological symphony of her body,
she becomes an architect of her own thriving.
She creates — not reacts.
She leads — not drifts.
She blooms — even in a world designed to distract her.

The time to remember is now.

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What You’ll Master Inside

Reclaim Your Sovereignty

Reconnect to the full history and possibilities of female body literacy, beyond the narrow frameworks society offered.

Map Your Complete Anatomy

Learn the true architecture of your reproductive system — internal and external — with clinical clarity and sacred reverence.

Understand Your
Hormonal Ecology

Master the natural hormonal feedback loops that govern energy, mood, creativity, fertility, and emotional resilience.

Master Cycle Awareness

Track and interpret basal body temperature (BBT), cervical fluid, and hormonal biomarkers to build practical self-mastery.

Confirm Ovulation and
Fertile Windows

Accurately identify fertile windows — critical for natural conception, natural contraception, or simply conscious living.

Chart Your

Personal Rhythm

Create a living map of your body's patterns, strengthening your ability to self-correct imbalances and cultivate vibrant health.

Anchor into
Sovereign Living

Apply your body’s wisdom to decisions in relationships, career, nutrition, movement, creative expression, and rest — building a life synchronized with your own thriving ecosystem.

Guide

About Your

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Elena Lakay is a Clinical Sexologist, Fertility Awareness Educator, and Women's Wellness Specialist with over two decades of experience supporting women to reclaim body sovereignty, hormonal wellness, and radiant health.

Her work integrates reproductive science, somatic awareness, cycle ecology, and conscious living — offering a rare combination of clinical rigor and sacred depth.

Elena is the creator of The Feminine Arc, a living curriculum for women who are ready to live their fullest, most authentic lives — in rhythm with their true design.

Beyond Remember Her:

The Feminine Arc

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Reimagine Her

Deconstructing cultural conditioning, reclaiming pleasure, authentic embodiment, and building conscious community.

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Renew Her

Feminine form fasting, metabolic restoration, hormonal vitality, gut-brain connection, and cyclical healing.

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Relove Her

Orgasmic living, expanded intimacy, conscious conception (of life, dreams, and partnerships).

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Reclaim Her

Embracing the liberated wisdom of perimenopause and menopause as a new era of female leadership and legacy.

You are not just remembering yourself

You are remembering a lineage. A future. A world only you can create.

Contrary to popular belief, you aren't designed to individualize your entire life. You aren't supposed to do it all alone!

This is why professionals have coaches, coaches have coaches, and why you have me.

“The doors to the world of the wild Self are few but precious. If you have a deep scar, that is a door, if you have an old, old story, that is a door. If you love the sky and the water so much you almost cannot bear it, that is a door. If you yearn for a deeper life, a full life, a sane life, that is a door.”
― Clarissa Pinkola Estés

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