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Hey loves!

I'm Elena Lakay

Clinical Sexologist | Reproductive Health Specialist | Specializing In Orgasmic Living & Embodiment  

Interested in my signature 1:1 or group offerings? Book a consultation.

Meet the coach who is helping women across the globe reclaim agency, love, and bliss. 

Hi, I am Elena Lakay, and I'm here to shake up everything you thought you knew about your feminine cycle. Transforming women into their best selves is what I do best, working my magick in Sacred Movement, Fitness, Holistic Intimacy, Reproductive Health and Birth Education for over 30 years. I am a Moon Child, Mermaid, and Lioness– I belong to elements, embodying Air, Earth, Fire, and Water. I am God’s Sister to the Sun, as well as the Garden it shines upon. I am also your reflection, Sister, as you too are all of these.  

YOUR WOMB IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT

 My passion for Bodeology (™) is fueled by my joy in activating and awakening the most confident and authentically feminine Goddess in every woman. Entering my custom container– a Great Work spanning over 20 years I've worked to create it– you will have access to my personal story and the stories of real women who reflect your experiences and resonate with your struggles. Together we create a Butterfly Effect that transforms the entire Feminine Collective as we stand, laughing ecstatically, hands entwined, dripping with Blood and Nectar.

My passion is to help you realize your inner sanctuary that holds the mysteries residing in the sea of your body, womb and menstrual cycles. By entering this portal of yoni intelligence, you will alchemize your most authentic you. You will surrender consciously towards self-reverence, love, and intimacy to manifest your most profound life.

WHAT INSPIRES ME!

Initiating Women to the Magic of their Wombspace; Encouraging Women to courageously embrace their glorious bodies; Blissful Divine Masculine/Feminine Union; Intimacy grounded in prioritizing feminine pleasure; Affirming women’s right to express, claim, and demand pleasure in all aspects of life; Orgasmic Childbirth; Sex, Abundance, Resources; Conscious Contraception; Ecstatic Fertility; Bodily Intelligence and Bodily Autonomy; Women freeing themselves from masculine systems of thought and business.

WHAT I'M NOT ABOUT...

A continuum of reproductive health injustice to the lives of BIPOC women around the globe; A society that limits the creative essence of femininity through subtle and overt forms of racial oppression and sexual suppression; The lack of informed consent in the patient-physician dynamic; Disparities in the quality and quantity of resources for emergency or medical care based on racial inequity; Intentional or implicit bias and bodily harm to Black and Brown Wombs due to unnecessary invasive and experimental procedures; Consent Culture (or lack thereof); Patriarchal policing of the Womb Collective.

What I believe

Fun Facts about Me

I'm a Yummy Mommy

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An Empowered and Awakened Mother Goddess for more than 30 years, I deliciously revel in the blessing that I have children that are College-aged professionals, as well as my Youngest Son who is currently in K-5, proof that the Patriarchal Lie of the "Biological Clock" you've been haunted by doesn't hold water (pun intended). 

My Womb is my Playground

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I wake up to genuine orgasms daily, and I love playfully exploring and examining my Cervical Fluids-- as you, too, will learn to love your Nectars just as ecstatically once I demystify the secrets of your Bodeology(tm). 

I am a Rebel (and a Mermaid!)

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 The secrets and science I am sharing with you cost me dearly, taking years of exploring Behind the Veil to retrieve our ancestral medicine and combat the systemic erasure of Black Women. A real-life Mermaid (I Am!), allow me to take your hand and guide you beneath the gentle waters of Our Mothers' Mysteries to reclaim (Y)Our Pleasure and Power, Womb Intelligence, and Bodily Autonomy. 

Your Body,
Your Bodeology(tm)

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ready to get started

See why I'm your favorite go to for education and coaching on sex, love, and cycles

My work is dedicated to every Black, Indigenous Woman of Color. Every mother, daughter, niece, aunt, sister and best friend. To all the womb bearers! To all of you who have bled through each garden of every life and death cycle. For all of those with stories of the womb! Ase'

A New Chapter Begins:
From The Yoni Code to The Feminine Arc

For years, The Yoni Code offered women a portal into deeper understanding of their bodies, cycles, and power.
But evolution is the nature of life — and with it, a new, more expansive journey has emerged.

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Today, The Feminine Arc is born:
A living, breathing curriculum designed to guide women through every stage of their body’s wisdom — from first blood to leadership in legacy years.

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Remember Her is our first stepping stone on this arc.
It is the foundational remembering:
A return to the body's original intelligence,
A restoration of rhythmic sovereignty,
A reawakening of the blueprint that was always yours.

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If you’ve journeyed with us before — welcome deeper.
If you are new to this work — welcome home.

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We begin, as all great journeys do, with the first remembering.

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A Message for Every Woman

There is a wild intelligence living within you — a precise, breathtaking symphony of hormones, rhythms, fertile tides, and subtle communications that were designed for your thriving.

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Yet for centuries, women have been distanced from their own bodies. Taught to fear their fertility. Conditioned to distrust their cycles. Pressured to override their natural wisdom in service to convenience, control, or conformity.

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The result is a silent crisis — one that touches nearly every woman alive today.

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Remember Her is a modern reclamation: a clinical, embodied, and soul-rooted journey back to the profound intelligence of your female form. Here, you will learn to understand your full anatomy, navigate your hormonal ecology, master the language of your cycle, and reclaim the sovereign rhythms that were always yours to command.

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This is the beginning of The Feminine Arc — a lifetime journey of self-mastery, vibrant health, and embodied leadership.

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The world needs women who remember.

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The Hidden Health Crisis Facing Women

Only 7% of Americans have healthy metabolic function; 93% do not.

60% of Americans live with at least one chronic disease.

800 million people worldwide are living with obesity, including a massive rise in childhood obesity  with girls being disproportionately impacted.

41% of women over 21 are obese; 45% have high blood pressure.

1 in 5 women will develop Alzheimer’s disease — increasingly linked to insulin resistance

("Type 3 Diabetes").

1 in 8 women will develop a thyroid disorder.

1 in 9 women will develop type 2 diabetes.

80% of autoimmune conditions affect women.

Suicide rates for women peak between ages 45–55, coinciding with profound hormonal transitions.

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Birth Interventions:

  • Only 5% of women give birth physiologically with full oxytocin flow.

  • 30% of births are cesarean sections.

  • 40% are induced, 76% involve epidurals, 94% involve continuous fetal monitoring, 25% involve episiotomies.

Fertility in Crisis:

  • 1 in 6 couples experience infertility.

  • Female infertility rates have nearly doubled in the last 40 years.

  • 15–20% of known pregnancies end in miscarriage.

  • IVF and assisted reproduction are rising, often without addressing root causes.

Behind these numbers lies a deeper wound:
The widespread loss of body literacy — of fertile awareness, hormonal ecology, and sovereign self-care — is costing women their vitality, autonomy, and future health.

It does not have to be this way.

Why Now? Why

Remember Her

Women cannot afford to remain disconnected.

Mastery of your body’s rhythms is not just about fertility or contraception —
it is the foundation for emotional resilience, cognitive clarity, relationship alignment, career performance, and long-term health outcomes.

Through this journey, you will:

  • Reclaim your power to regulate your health, fertility, and well-being naturally.

  • Learn to detect early hormonal shifts that can impact memory, energy, weight, immune function, and mental health.

  • Build emotional resilience by syncing your energy and nervous system to your body's true rhythms.

  • Make informed, confident decisions about healthcare, intimacy, lifestyle, and purpose.

  • Live from a place of inner authority, self-trust, and embodied intelligence.

When a woman understands the ecological symphony of her body,
she becomes an architect of her own thriving.
She creates — not reacts.
She leads — not drifts.
She blooms — even in a world designed to distract her.

The time to remember is now.

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What You’ll Master Inside

Reclaim Your Sovereignty

Reconnect to the full history and possibilities of female body literacy, beyond the narrow frameworks society offered.

Map Your Complete Anatomy

Learn the true architecture of your reproductive system — internal and external — with clinical clarity and sacred reverence.

Understand Your
Hormonal Ecology

Master the natural hormonal feedback loops that govern energy, mood, creativity, fertility, and emotional resilience.

Master Cycle Awareness

Track and interpret basal body temperature (BBT), cervical fluid, and hormonal biomarkers to build practical self-mastery.

Confirm Ovulation and
Fertile Windows

Accurately identify fertile windows — critical for natural conception, natural contraception, or simply conscious living.

Chart Your

Personal Rhythm

Create a living map of your body's patterns, strengthening your ability to self-correct imbalances and cultivate vibrant health.

Anchor into
Sovereign Living

Apply your body’s wisdom to decisions in relationships, career, nutrition, movement, creative expression, and rest — building a life synchronized with your own thriving ecosystem.

Guide

About Your

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Elena Lakay is a Clinical Sexologist, Fertility Awareness Educator, and Women's Wellness Specialist with over two decades of experience supporting women to reclaim body sovereignty, hormonal wellness, and radiant health.​

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Her work integrates reproductive science, somatic awareness, cycle ecology, and conscious living — offering a rare combination of clinical rigor and sacred depth.​

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Elena is the creator of The Feminine Arc, a living curriculum for women who are ready to live their fullest, most authentic lives — in rhythm with their true design.

Beyond Remember Her:

The Feminine Arc

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Reimagine Her

Deconstructing cultural conditioning, reclaiming pleasure, authentic embodiment, and building conscious community.

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Renew Her

Feminine form fasting, metabolic restoration, hormonal vitality, gut-brain connection, and cyclical healing.

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Relove Her

Orgasmic living, expanded intimacy, conscious conception (of life, dreams, and partnerships).

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Reclaim Her

Embracing the liberated wisdom of perimenopause and menopause as a new era of female leadership and legacy.

You are not just remembering yourself

You are remembering a lineage. A future. A world only you can create.

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Contrary to popular belief, you aren't designed to individualize your entire life. You aren't supposed to do it all alone!

This is why professionals have coaches, coaches have coaches, and why you have me.

“The doors to the world of the wild Self are few but precious. If you have a deep scar, that is a door, if you have an old, old story, that is a door. If you love the sky and the water so much you almost cannot bear it, that is a door. If you yearn for a deeper life, a full life, a sane life, that is a door.”
― Clarissa Pinkola Estés

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